Good In Bed

How does one get good in bed? Unfortunately a large portion of the population learns from porn. I won't go into the good and bad of porn, and yes there is good, well done, porn that is made where no one is forced, and it's not dark and ugly. What I will say, is that...

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Nice Guy Misogyny

This is a great blog about Nice Guy Misogyny. I love this because it's not two concepts one would usually combine, but it really describes the issues men often face while trying to be the nice guy. Nice guy syndrome (also nice girl syndrome) is where you take on the...

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What Is Normal Sex?

Sexual norms around the world show that there is no 'normal' way to practice sex. In her new book, Sex Rules: Astonishing Sexual Practices and Gender Roles Around the World, Janice Zarro Brodman shares the results of years of research and world travel to show readers...

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2014 – A Year of Letting Go

As I reflect on this last year, I realize the major theme running through it was Letting Go. More specifically letting go of attachments. Attachment to how things turned out. Attachment to how people acted or responded. Attachment to what I thought I knew. Attachment...

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Do You Believe in Magic?

Do you believe in magic? I do. Life is filled with little magical moments if we only take the time to notice them. Change our focus just a bit and magic appears. Recently, my daughter and I watched the movie The Rise of the Guardians. We both loved it by the way. It’s...

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Life on the Edge

"Your edge is the experiential zone where your deepest, most relevant growth happens. It’s also where meaning may be unraveled and rewoven, where your world may undergo foundational changes, where unsuspected imperatives may catalyze new directions for you. Whatever...

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